Wednesday, March 08, 2006

World's #1 Guy

He may not be THE world's #1 guy.. but he is definitely my world's :D hehe.. I have a list of world's #1 man, world's #1 guy, world's #1 lady, world's #1 girl (or maybe I should call her a woman now), and even world's #1 baby.. hehehehe.. maybe I'll have more categories later in the future.. For now, I'm gonna write about my world's #1 guy..

On the day he was born, everyone was extremely happy.. He's his parents' first (and only) son, his sisters' first (and only) brother, his grandparents' first grandson.. of course everyone was in joy!!! \(^o^)/ He was big for a baby and he was healthy too, but it wasnt until a few days later, when it was difficult for him to breathe and the doctor said it was katalepsi ("kejang".. ok so I dunno the English word for it).. so the doctor gave him anti-biotic (which I know now that it should NOT be given to babies!!!) But then.. they found out that it wasnt katalepsi at all, instead he got a hole in his heart, his clean blood mixed with his dirty blood and that makes him hard to breathe..

They moved him to another hospital and put him in the ICU.. he was dying.. the joy turned into deep sadness.. they tried everything they could and finally a miracle came and saved his life.. they could take him home.. but not for long.. they had to take him back to the hospital to check his hearing.. Remember the antibiotic? well it DID its job, it made him deaf.. His parents went home in tears.. sue the doctor? would it do any good? what's been done is done.. right? sueing the doctor wouldnt give him his hearing back..

Other children could hear their parents' voice.. listen to their parents' lullabies or stories.. sing songs.. but he couldnt.. he had to learn sign language very early and went to school at the age of 2.. spent a year there or more and then he moved to a much better school.. where they taught him to actually speak.. they said "u cant hear, but u can talk! so dont use sign language!" .. and that was where he learned how to read lips.. *good things about being able to read lips: u can know what people are talking about from afar.. good for gossipers ei?* ..Anyway.. he grew as a very thin boy.. should I say skinny.. he cant run and play like any other children cos of his heart.. it tired him easily and his skin turned blue when it happened..

When he was 4, his parents decided that it was time for him to have a heart surgery.. so they took him to Australia (where the doctors are most trustworthy than they are here!).. the operation was successful and it changed him.. he can run, he can play, and he can do sports.. that skinny boy just disappeared in time!!

He turns out to be a kind-hearted, intelligent, tall, handsome, caring person, not so gentleman but I'd still say he is, and he's a good cook too.. he's just the kind of person that everyone would like!! he's the nicest guy I've ever known.. I'm telling you HE IS!!! call me a brother complex, I dun mind.. maybe I am.. :P he, my brother, is sooooo friendly, if u see him, then u'd (almost) always see a smile on his face.. even to people who have hurt him.. he's so forgiving.. I'm just worried bad people would use him.. :(

He likes little children and he takes care of them whenever they're around.. he holds his mom's or sisters' hands when they walk alone.. he's funny too.. very very funny.. negative things? uhm.. lemme think.. he's kinda lazy to study, though he's bright in maths and science.. and he likes to gossip.. and haha u might say he was born to be a playa, or let's just say he was born with charm \(^o^)/ many girls like him.. but he seems to have a problem with girls lately.. he moved to a normal school *see, he's bright! :D even though he cant hear but he was one of his class top ten students!!* .. he told me once that normal girls mostly dun want to be with him.. he was very sad at that moment.. i know it would be hard for him to have a good-hearted girlfriend.. even if the girl was okay with this, what about the parents? Well as you know, parents always question their son/daughter's girl/boyfriend.. it's gonna be tough, u know, with his condition.. and even when it's all good.. what about his brother-complex-sister (me)? it's gonna be a problem for his future-girlfriend/s.. MUHAHAHAHAHAHA..

My friend told me once that my brother's life is still stable rite now.. meaning, everyone is nice to him, he's confident.. but there's gonna be times when he feels down.. when people look down on him.. when he finally realizes that the world is aint fair.. especially in his career and love life.. people tries to bring others down.. even friends compete.. will he be strong by then? he'll need someone to turn to.. especially his family... and will we be strong by then? will I be? I pray so..

4 comments:

dsentanu said...

Edisi blog World #1 Boyfriend kapan nih? ^^

Mei said...

Able to realise the weakness makes you a stronger person.. although the road to it is a long and hard one I am sure your brother will overcome this and be a winner on top! :)

Nitingke said...

thank u :D

Anonymous said...

just wanna said:
"baru baca..."

;))